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Every woman has her own list of qualities she finds most attractive in men. According to my research and experience, these are the most popular qualities (not in order of importance):

1. Self-Confidence
2. Style
3. Sense of Humor
4. Status
5. Intelligence
6. Good Listening Skills
7. Spontaneity

You don’t have to memorize these qualities and come up with elaborate plans on how you will improve in each one. You shouldn’t be thinking about this list while talking to girls because you will immediately fail the 6th quality (good listening skills).

I just want you to get a general idea of what women are attracted to, and a fair understanding as to why they’re attracted to these qualities.

1. Self-Confidence – Women can sense and almost measure your self-confidence by simply looking at your body language. Bad body language emits awkwardness and insecurity, while good body language emits confidence and grace.

2. Style – Women like something unique and different, which can easily be seen in a person’s style. If you look like everyone else at the dance floor or in a bar, you will be just like everyone else in her eyes.

3. Sense of Humor – Making a woman laugh will make her remember you and will make her want to hang out with you again. Don’t be boring because the conversation will be dull, but don’t be a clown either (you are not there to entertain her). Also watch out for inappropriate jokes.

4. Status – Women like men who are leaders and accepted by their peers. You don’t have to be the CEO of a company or a king to have status, just act like one.

5. Intelligence – Women like a man who is knowledgeable. A good, smart conversation is always more memorable than boring chitchat. If you can maintain your intelligence in a conversation, you will maintain her interest.

6. Good Listening Skills – A woman likes to be heard. So many men are such bad listeners, that when one of us actually listens and maintains eye contact, women are impressed.

7. Spontaneity – Women like an exciting man. They like the feeling when they don’t know what a man will do next. Of course, just because an activity or action is spontaneous doesn’t mean it’s a good idea. Don’t expect a girl you just met to want to run in the woods with you at midnight.

As you read lessons, keep these 7 qualities in mind, and you will begin to see connections among them. By now you should start realizing there is an actually science in attracting women; you don’t just get “lucky” one night at the bar.

If you have any questions, concerns, or recommendations feel free to email me at: YourDatingCollege@Hotmail.com